About Me
I do this work because I deeply care. I understand the impact of loneliness in the modern world and what it feels like to be emotionally starved in our private lives. As a species, we’re wired for connection and belonging, and it can be deeply painful when that’s missing or lacking.
I guide individuals and couples toward deeper connection, fulfillment, and empowered intimacy, blending modern psychology, somatic work, and Eastern wisdom. Whether you’re facing challenges in your romantic life or wanting to reconnect with yourself, I help you leave behind limiting patterns and build relationships grounded in safety and presence.
I hope to inspire a way of loving that heals, nourishes, and leaves an embodied legacy of tenderness for the next generation.
Extraordinary relationships and soul-nourishing intimacy take time, patience, curiosity, and self-responsibility. It’s a journey of deep connection—and it starts with you.
Background & Trainings
I have over two decades of experience in the creative industry as a photographer, also taking on creative direction across fashion, advertising, and portraiture. My work with individuals and brands was never just about the surface of an image—it was about reading essence, aspiration, and vulnerability, and knowing how to work with both shadow and light, much like coaching.
I’m certified in coaching and embodiment, with training in somatic practices and parts-based work, and a focus on relationships, sex, love, and empowerment. I’ve completed well over a thousand hours of formal training and continue to deepen my understanding of the nervous system, relational dynamics, and advanced parts-based psychology.
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